It Begins with you, Self Discovery
NLP seeks to understand and identify the skills or lacking mindset in certain individuals. Once we grasp and identify why our mindset is holding us back, or holding back the desires we want to pursue, then we can work on training our mind to approach things another way.
Everything begins and ends with your mindset. How you choose to approach the day or any situation can change things drastically for you in the future. It would be beneficial for you to always have a clear head and proper judgement, however, this is a skill that is only attained through practice and introspection. The foundations of these skills can be attained by anyone who wants to learn them.